Autism and BDSM

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I find within the BDSM lifestyle a freedom and confidence I did not have in vanilla.

There is a stigma to being female in society that women should always bend to males opinions and views of how we should act and behave.. a confident outspoken woman is seen as a threat and to be taken down a notch or two in this male orientated world.

There are many societies in ancient times where it was matriarchal and women were revered as the knowledge bearers.

In BDSM being a Mistress I can be myself.. I can be outspoken, confident, speak my mind, be honestly blunt as much as I like and it is just accepted because of the way a Mistress is portrayed in media and porn…and in the lifestyle….

So having Aspergers is actually funnily enough an asset…lol

I don’t have to conform to anyone else’s ideology of what a woman is… I don’t have to act in a vanilla way at all…. and its fucking fantastic…

Just a thought.

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Author: thesecretaspieblog

I am 47 years old, divorced a long time ago.. with abusive ex's in my past... I have three children in their early twenties who may or may not have Aspergers. I am self diagnosed and in the future when I can I would like to be officially diagnosed. I just don't have any money to spare atm. I am on Disability for having Multiple Personality Disorder. I was diagnosed officially in 2012. I knew about my personalities from when I was 31. Finding out I am probably on the spectrum has in some ways given me a life jacket and simultaneously felt like someone is pushing me under..... This is just my thoughts put into words.

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