Autism and BDSM

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I find within the BDSM lifestyle a freedom and confidence I did not have in vanilla.

There is a stigma to being female in society that women should always bend to males opinions and views of how we should act and behave.. a confident outspoken woman is seen as a threat and to be taken down a notch or two in this male orientated world.

There are many societies in ancient times where it was matriarchal and women were revered as the knowledge bearers.

In BDSM being a Mistress I can be myself.. I can be outspoken, confident, speak my mind, be honestly blunt as much as I like and it is just accepted because of the way a Mistress is portrayed in media and porn…and in the lifestyle….

So having Aspergers is actually funnily enough an asset…lol

I don’t have to conform to anyone else’s ideology of what a woman is… I don’t have to act in a vanilla way at all…. and its fucking fantastic…

Just a thought.

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Author: thesecretaspieblog

I am more than my diagnoses, I am more than my past. I defy anyone to put me in a box and label who and what I am. I am exceptional. I am unique and so are you. Strive for the stars and you shall paint the world around you with ecstasy, laughter and empathy. Show compassion for those less fortunate. Do not forget the lost ones. Stand up for human rights and social justice. I have been labelled Autistic by therapists, I have been labelled with Multiple Personality Disorder by psychiatrists. On Fetlife I am labelled an Owner, a Cuckoldress and a Mistress. Labels do not define who you are but give others an idea of what you are and that is all. Be more than just a label.

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